Would somebody please tell me what a family is?
2009.11.23 - 12:18 AM
Because last time I checked, it didn't mean like blood; it meant not being alone when you fall.
Look around you. Look at what you have.
The ones we are born in to, we are doomed to them by a bloodline, whether good or bad- this is meaningless.
The ones you love and the ones who love you, those are your family.
The ones who suffer with you and not by themselves, those are your family.
It is defined by common ground and understanding, familiarity and integrity.
Family has nothing to do with ownership.
I strongly agree.
Ya shure !
After that supposidly close family that it's bloodline it could at least ben an extended family !
This second one is just getting more and more important for me day by day since a few years now and so it is extending too !
By the first one : I've felt so forsaken some time. In deed I was.
But some miracle happen to be ! My mental and over all health improved and I've realise that I've did left theme and that for a long while it was no way at all to keep in touch with me. Those specifics times of my life were those that I felt forsaken at worst. I cannot say that they did not think about me then! I've ask them forgiveness and so now we meet. Not to often but we meet somtime. My second family became more important: Anyway !
Wishing you all the best as well as possible ! Mary Christmas 2010